So I guess this is the time we all wish each other a happy new year. Everyone goes around saying it but who really genuinely means it? ( Is it like the people who ask you how you are but they don't really want to know) Why do we do that I wonder, where did it come from? It seems like some kind of corny Victorian tradition but maybe it started before that?
My nan was of the generation where new years day was celebrated as much as Xmas day. Another roast dinner and hot dessert on a day of about 35 degrees. Poor mum was the one who always had to cook this hot meal only a week after she has been through it on Xmas day. The oven would be turned on at about 9am and we would all be dying in the heat. Mum usually up until recent years still likes to celebrate new year's day in one way or another, but for me it really is just another day
By the time we were teenagers mum saw the light for xmas and she cooked the turkey the day before then we had it cold for Xmas lunch with ham and lots of salads and the only hot food was baby boiled spuds in butter and mint.
I am not knocking people who say "happy new year" we all do it, we always have, out of habit or maybe some people really really mean it with the best of intentions.
I have been wondering lately though how we say happy new year but don't really mean it. It just comes out. It does nothing, It doesn't stop people being sick, people dying or having extremely bad luck, or not getting what they had hoped for.
I realised this as I had it said to me in Xmas cards etc and I thought how silly it seemed when I have never felt so ill as I have lately. Two trips to the doctor in this last week. Before that still having to cope with Xmas and now the heat.
It is still just said anyway, even though I am ill. Even my own brother sends a text from Brisbane "happy New Year", without a thought in a world.
Also mum is so very ill so how silly it would be to say happy new year to her. I tried to put some thought into it and said to her lets hope this year will have improvements and breakthroughs for us.
I know people mean well by wishing people a happy new year. I have done it for nearly as long as I can remember. But really, 99% of the time is there any genuineness behind it all.
It is cliche but people always say if you don't have your health you have nothing. When I was young I used to think oh what a crock of shit that is, but, this is SOOOO true. So if you do want a happy new year do everything in your power to keep good health because THAT is the key to everything, not money or job security or any of that bullshit stuff.
If you don't have good health and especially if it is getting worse lets hope this IS a year of hope and new discoveries for our health, and even better maybe we will have improvements.
I am not one for resolutions anymore either. Only because they would only last a day. I am pathetic like that. I certainly was into them when I was a teenager. I thought they could change my life.